Cheaters Gonna Cheat
For the finale of our story I will detail how things went from your typical bad breakup to a bad Telenovela.
After moving out in September, we exchanged texts. Some full of anger. some forgiveness. Some friendly. Typical breakup stuff. Grief is a process. We didn’t go more than a week or so without a text exchange but didn’t physically see each other.
Then I received messages on October 5th, 2020 from a friend of a friend who had met Michael on Facebook dating and talked mad shit about me. I was FURIOUS. So much so that I sent him an email. When he tried to lie to me and defend his comments I event made a PDF of the screenshot from their convo with notations and sent it to him:
Even after that he denied it. He said it wasn’t the whole story but I know it 100% was.
I almost wish I had not said anything because this opened the door. We had our first phone conversation in a month because he wanted to apologize. Like a sucker, I accepted that. Suddenly he was asking to chat with the girls because he felt bad for putting them out:
Then he started wanting to mow my lawn again and getting attitude if I got someone else:
Then he started seeing the girls:
I thought this was great fr them because they missed him. Little did I know that as soon as he noticed I was moving on he would try to move back in on me…….
So we kept texting the same way for a couple of weeks and then he remembered a bet we had about the election:
This was the first time he brought up sex. I figured he was joking. Then on November 2nd he said he wasn’t feeling well and I got weak:
So yeah I slept with him. I mean no big deal right? Lots of people bounce back to their ex now and again.
BUT it got so much worse…….
So kept sleeping together until one night I left without having sex with him. I just couldn’t keep doing it. Then he exploded at me. I told him I was done. Then he left me a voicemail that my dumbs couldn’t not respond to:
You can here the full recording here: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1cjBFtgfF1Bzs9r0IxEp-rGfjpy5T2ldF/view?usp=sharing
I fell for this hook, line and sinker. We would spend the next month having sex, hanging out together and even hanging out with my kids. He even promised to hang with me on Thanksgiving because I have no family but of course, he lied about that.
Here is a gallery of some texts highlights showing how much we exchanged:
Then just to confirm here are some screenshots WITH apple timestamps showing and another voicemail from 12/3/2020. As anyone can see I was there during holiday/football season but it gets worse…..
So then things took the worst turn. Remember that girl he said he had stopped talking to back in April????? Her name is Sember and on December 7th I found out that he actually never stopped talking to her. Not only that but he had been dating her and not I was the other woman!!!!
I called him out on that day because I knew he was leaving for Indy. He spun lies about how she isn’t his girlfriend and they “only talk”. Then he left for Indy.
The next day I actually came down with Covid so I had a very high fever, Even so I couldn’t get over the feeling that he was lying. I called him and told him that he needed to do the right thing. He needed to tell her. He begged and pleaded with me. He asked me to wait until after his therapy appointment and then we could talk.
I did. Then he never called. I texted him and he said he was at Top Golf with guys from work. I had a feeling he was with her and called him out. Then he went low.
He made his entire family block me on social media. He spun lies to everyone so no one would believe the truth because he knew I would try to expose it. He even had his lawyer threaten me the next day with a protective order. None of that scared me.
So as I was sick in bed with Covid, I downloaded all out=r texts and gathered evidence, Then I emailed them to Sember and interested parties. I’m not sure what lies he told exactly but I received a threatening email back from Sember telling me how she would defend the man she loved, etc. All I could think was “You poor dumb bitch” but I left it alone.
I found out later that he told everyone I manipulated the texts and fabricated things. Pretty impressive considering the PDF was dozens of pages and I was dying from Covid in my bed.
At the end of the day people don’t really want the ugly truth.
There’s more to the story. He ended up suing me. He told many more lies about me. Sember is still with him because he is just that good of a liar. Some will say that putting all of this online is petty orn immature but I don’t care. To be fair- I did email Michael multiple times requesting a face-to-face conversation to find closure and forgiveness for what he did to me. He never responded.
This is my closure. This is me setting the record straight. Not for other people but for myself.
I was a wonderful partner. I loved him with everything I had. I didn’t deserve to be drug through the mud. I know that now.
I’m ready to move forward.
Thanks for listening. Much love and peace.
The Ugly Truth 