This site was created after a breakup. You probably figured this out already. A question I’ve been asked is why is still exists after all the dust has settled. The simple answer is that it exists for me. When I wrote all of this, I was mentally and emotionally depleted. The man I loved and my children loved and who claimed to love me forever had not only betrayed me in awful ways but had also lied to nearly everyone I knew about me. He then tried to sue me. He took me to court for a protective order. He even got my best friend to question me- that’s how manipulative he is. He didn’t just break up with me- he then tried to use and when I put an end to that he tried to destroy me.

This blog was the only outlet I had for the truth. Since no one believed me, I decided to add texts, recording, etc. I was hoping that Sember, the woman he cheated on after me, might actually see it and come to her senses. I’ve since learned that she doesn’t care that he cheated on every woman he has ever been with including her. He has her totally engaged in his lies.

Are you afraid of getting sued?

Honestly, nope. When he made me go to court for his bogus protective order, I even asked the judge about it. He said that it’s only defamation if it’s untrue. Since this is all true, I have no reason to be afraid. It’s also why he has never tried to pursue me for it. He knows he would lose a defamation case and by doing so all the people he lied to, including his current girlfriend, would have to admit that I was telling the truth. He won’t risk that.

Will you ever take it down?

Nope. Michael’s friends, family and Medspeed coworkers deserve to know who is really is.

Why? Haven’t you moved on?

Yes I have moved on. I have a wonderful partner who makes Michael look like a joke. That said, I keep this up because I deserve to be heard. Too often we silence women or label them as crazy bitches just for telling the whole truth. Men shouldn’t get to escape consequences or have their behavior excused just because they are men.

Will you ever talk to Michael again?

Not likely but not by choice. I would gladly listen to Michael if he wanted to clear his karma up a bit. I definitely wouldn’t let him back in my life but I can still forgive him. However, that is a road way too high for someone like him to travel. He even took me to court because I emailed him looking for resolution. He made up stories and hired his lawyer just to get a judge to say I can’t email him rather than have a conversation with me. So, given that childish maneuver, I highly doubt he will be reaching out to own up. He could’ve done that in 2020 and saved us both a lot of drama.

Update: Sember, the woman he cheated with and then cheated on is now Sember Chappell. Yep. Maybe she is cool with an open marriage? Who knows.

I’ll be taking bets on how long it lasts. I’m positive he is already cheating on her. I’m guessing it will be a max of five years before she sees the light like I did and he screws her and her kids over too. Karma comes for everyone. I’ll be over here with my popcorn waiting for the show…..